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		By: Pup Fan		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Pup Fan]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Feb 2013 03:20:02 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Less time thinking... I need to figure out how to do that too!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Less time thinking&#8230; I need to figure out how to do that too!</p>
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		By: Pamela		</title>
		<link>https://www.somethingwagging.com/stop-asking-if-your-dog-loves-you-good-for-the-dog-good-for-you/#comment-60333</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Pamela]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Feb 2013 15:04:30 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.somethingwagging.com/stop-asking-if-your-dog-loves-you-good-for-the-dog-good-for-you/#comment-60257&quot;&gt;Elizabeth&lt;/a&gt;.

Humans ask questions. Maybe that&#039;s what it means to be human.

If you and your husband join the parents brigade, I&#039;ll be fascinated to see if you transfer any skills from caring for Luna and Penny to raising a human peanut. :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.somethingwagging.com/stop-asking-if-your-dog-loves-you-good-for-the-dog-good-for-you/#comment-60257">Elizabeth</a>.</p>
<p>Humans ask questions. Maybe that&#8217;s what it means to be human.</p>
<p>If you and your husband join the parents brigade, I&#8217;ll be fascinated to see if you transfer any skills from caring for Luna and Penny to raising a human peanut. 🙂</p>
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		By: Pamela		</title>
		<link>https://www.somethingwagging.com/stop-asking-if-your-dog-loves-you-good-for-the-dog-good-for-you/#comment-60332</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Pamela]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Feb 2013 15:03:04 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.somethingwagging.com/stop-asking-if-your-dog-loves-you-good-for-the-dog-good-for-you/#comment-60115&quot;&gt;Kristine&lt;/a&gt;.

Hmmm, you&#039;ve done it again, Kristine. You&#039;ve started me working on a post about how we work out our needs and feelings about other people in our care for our dogs. 

The older I get, the more I appreciate the word &quot;enough.&quot; Or as Mary Poppins said, &quot;Enough is as good as a feast.&quot;

So yes, I think it&#039;s enough to care for our dogs without worrying all the time about their feelings. But then again, I&#039;m the person who is shocked to find only 25% of the population suffers from depression. You mean there are people who don&#039;t dread life? :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.somethingwagging.com/stop-asking-if-your-dog-loves-you-good-for-the-dog-good-for-you/#comment-60115">Kristine</a>.</p>
<p>Hmmm, you&#8217;ve done it again, Kristine. You&#8217;ve started me working on a post about how we work out our needs and feelings about other people in our care for our dogs. </p>
<p>The older I get, the more I appreciate the word &#8220;enough.&#8221; Or as Mary Poppins said, &#8220;Enough is as good as a feast.&#8221;</p>
<p>So yes, I think it&#8217;s enough to care for our dogs without worrying all the time about their feelings. But then again, I&#8217;m the person who is shocked to find only 25% of the population suffers from depression. You mean there are people who don&#8217;t dread life? 🙂</p>
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		By: Pamela		</title>
		<link>https://www.somethingwagging.com/stop-asking-if-your-dog-loves-you-good-for-the-dog-good-for-you/#comment-60331</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Pamela]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Feb 2013 14:58:43 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.somethingwagging.com/stop-asking-if-your-dog-loves-you-good-for-the-dog-good-for-you/#comment-60227&quot;&gt;Georgia Little Pea&lt;/a&gt;.

If you&#039;re old and crabby then I am too. After all, I wrote that my dog is a self-serving bitch: https://www.somethingwagging.com/2011/07/30/my-dog-is-a-self-serving-bitch-and-im-ok-with-that/.

But like most things I write about, this really doesn&#039;t have near as much to do with dogs as it does with humans. The fact that I ask the question in my insecurity says loads about me and nearly nothing about Honey. 

If a dog is a mirror for our quirks and insecurities, being able to live happily by Georgia&#039;s side allowing her to be who she is without asking freaky questions is a sign of your own enlightenment. I hope to get there soon myself. :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.somethingwagging.com/stop-asking-if-your-dog-loves-you-good-for-the-dog-good-for-you/#comment-60227">Georgia Little Pea</a>.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re old and crabby then I am too. After all, I wrote that my dog is a self-serving bitch: <a href="https://www.somethingwagging.com/2011/07/30/my-dog-is-a-self-serving-bitch-and-im-ok-with-that/" rel="ugc">https://www.somethingwagging.com/2011/07/30/my-dog-is-a-self-serving-bitch-and-im-ok-with-that/</a>.</p>
<p>But like most things I write about, this really doesn&#8217;t have near as much to do with dogs as it does with humans. The fact that I ask the question in my insecurity says loads about me and nearly nothing about Honey. </p>
<p>If a dog is a mirror for our quirks and insecurities, being able to live happily by Georgia&#8217;s side allowing her to be who she is without asking freaky questions is a sign of your own enlightenment. I hope to get there soon myself. 🙂</p>
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		By: Elizabeth		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Elizabeth]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Feb 2013 05:35:21 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[These types of questions about our dogs are always going through our minds! I think it&#039;s partially due to the fact that we don&#039;t have children (and we are currently thinking about children) and maybe we are questioning our parenting skills.  Or maybe it&#039;s just because we both love our dogs so much. :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>These types of questions about our dogs are always going through our minds! I think it&#8217;s partially due to the fact that we don&#8217;t have children (and we are currently thinking about children) and maybe we are questioning our parenting skills.  Or maybe it&#8217;s just because we both love our dogs so much. 🙂</p>
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		By: Georgia Little Pea		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Georgia Little Pea]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Feb 2013 03:51:30 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I don&#039;t over analyse what dogs do anymore. I used to, in my dog crazy youth. These days, I&#039;m more keen to just live beside them and let them be dogs. They&#039;re not perfect, unconditionally loving dalai lamas, they&#039;re just dogs. There are even morose, grouchy ones. I know because I live with one :)

I also find we often interpret a dog&#039;s actions in human terms. Loyalty, happiness, that sort of thing. Isn&#039;t it possible they do things not because they want to please us or make us proud, but because that&#039;s just what they do as dogs? What do you think? Am I being old and crabby again, or do I have a point? 

I might have gone off topic. This is what happens when you stop blogging for a week! Apologies X]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t over analyse what dogs do anymore. I used to, in my dog crazy youth. These days, I&#8217;m more keen to just live beside them and let them be dogs. They&#8217;re not perfect, unconditionally loving dalai lamas, they&#8217;re just dogs. There are even morose, grouchy ones. I know because I live with one 🙂</p>
<p>I also find we often interpret a dog&#8217;s actions in human terms. Loyalty, happiness, that sort of thing. Isn&#8217;t it possible they do things not because they want to please us or make us proud, but because that&#8217;s just what they do as dogs? What do you think? Am I being old and crabby again, or do I have a point? </p>
<p>I might have gone off topic. This is what happens when you stop blogging for a week! Apologies X</p>
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		By: Kristine		</title>
		<link>https://www.somethingwagging.com/stop-asking-if-your-dog-loves-you-good-for-the-dog-good-for-you/#comment-60115</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Kristine]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Feb 2013 16:50:16 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[You are very right. I have a large tendency to over-analyze every ear flicker (which is pretty much what my entire blog showcases :-P) and worry constantly about whether my dog is getting all of her needs met to the point that if she were a human I am sure I would drive her insane with all my pestering. I&#039;ve done this in other relationships as well, but that&#039;s another story...

Sometimes it&#039;s okay to take things at face value. Dogs don&#039;t worry about whether or not we really like them in our hearts, it&#039;s our actions that do the talking. That should be enough for us as well.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You are very right. I have a large tendency to over-analyze every ear flicker (which is pretty much what my entire blog showcases :-P) and worry constantly about whether my dog is getting all of her needs met to the point that if she were a human I am sure I would drive her insane with all my pestering. I&#8217;ve done this in other relationships as well, but that&#8217;s another story&#8230;</p>
<p>Sometimes it&#8217;s okay to take things at face value. Dogs don&#8217;t worry about whether or not we really like them in our hearts, it&#8217;s our actions that do the talking. That should be enough for us as well.</p>
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		By: Pamela		</title>
		<link>https://www.somethingwagging.com/stop-asking-if-your-dog-loves-you-good-for-the-dog-good-for-you/#comment-60090</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Pamela]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Feb 2013 15:11:51 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.somethingwagging.com/stop-asking-if-your-dog-loves-you-good-for-the-dog-good-for-you/#comment-60050&quot;&gt;Rhythm&lt;/a&gt;.

You are so right that this is one of those areas where dogs are so much smarter than humans. That&#039;s why it&#039;s so much easier to read to a dog than it is to read to a person. :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.somethingwagging.com/stop-asking-if-your-dog-loves-you-good-for-the-dog-good-for-you/#comment-60050">Rhythm</a>.</p>
<p>You are so right that this is one of those areas where dogs are so much smarter than humans. That&#8217;s why it&#8217;s so much easier to read to a dog than it is to read to a person. 🙂</p>
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		By: Pamela		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Pamela]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Feb 2013 15:10:20 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.somethingwagging.com/stop-asking-if-your-dog-loves-you-good-for-the-dog-good-for-you/#comment-60019&quot;&gt;Dee&lt;/a&gt;.

Isn&#039;t it amazing how if someone asks what makes your dogs happy you just know? 

I don&#039;t think I could answer the question nearly as well for my husband. :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.somethingwagging.com/stop-asking-if-your-dog-loves-you-good-for-the-dog-good-for-you/#comment-60019">Dee</a>.</p>
<p>Isn&#8217;t it amazing how if someone asks what makes your dogs happy you just know? </p>
<p>I don&#8217;t think I could answer the question nearly as well for my husband. 🙂</p>
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		By: Pamela		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Pamela]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Feb 2013 15:09:11 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.somethingwagging.com/stop-asking-if-your-dog-loves-you-good-for-the-dog-good-for-you/#comment-60010&quot;&gt;Maggie&lt;/a&gt;.

Maggie will probably stress a little with the move, just like you will. It&#039;s natural.

But the good news is that she&#039;s going with you. And, in the end, you&#039;re &quot;home&quot; to her. :)

So get some sleep. You&#039;ll need it.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.somethingwagging.com/stop-asking-if-your-dog-loves-you-good-for-the-dog-good-for-you/#comment-60010">Maggie</a>.</p>
<p>Maggie will probably stress a little with the move, just like you will. It&#8217;s natural.</p>
<p>But the good news is that she&#8217;s going with you. And, in the end, you&#8217;re &#8220;home&#8221; to her. 🙂</p>
<p>So get some sleep. You&#8217;ll need it.</p>
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